THIS IS HOW THE SWINE FLU GOT STARTED!!!!

There is no need to report anything other than this picture because it's been on the news everyday since lord knows when....

A Woman's Eyes

Do you feel that the eyes are really this powerful?!

"The Eyes":

"The eyes are the window of the soul. You look into a woman's eyes—especially in that moment of having sex or making love—and you can see the truth. You can see if she liked it. That gives you more assurance than a scream, than her clutching you and scratching your back. You look into her eyes and see that she can't control the bliss that you're putting on her. I love that. That's better than a female telling me she's coming!"

Now I'm asking the men, if they feel the same way about the power of a woman's eyes. What do you think? I'll make my comments after I hear from you....talk to me people....

Sex is Healthy!!!!

So as I was getting my teeth cleaned yesterday, I was watching the Mike & Juliet Show, some NBC or Fox morning show I think. Anyway, they had a married couple on there stating that they never have sex. Yea I know what you're thinking...burrrr how is this possible?! Married with no sex......Then you think of the stereotypes about married couples not gettin' in on the regular and it makes you question the whole married thing right? Well, they seemed like a nice married family with two kids (ages 8 and 12), so they are familiar with the act. However, the husband is a truck driver, ALWAYS on the road, and the mother is a nurse with a rather stable schedule. She goes to work, kids, homework, bed. Often missing her husband for days, when he does come home, she doesn't feel the need to have some "alone" time to reconnect the passion they had once before, and apperantly neither does he. They blame it on the kids and how tired they are. Kids can be real "sex police", but with some music or a tv in the background, and/or a baby sitter, you can MAKE a WAY, no excuses!

So a sex therapist asked the couple how they felt about the lack of sexual encounters they had, telling the wife that her lack of ambition for sexual relations, could lead her husband to stray away and "get it in" on the road. She stated that she wasn't worried about him cheating, she's comfortable with her relationship (all bull if you ask me!!!). The husband proclaims that he is waaaaaay too busy on the road to cheat (more bull if you ask me!!!). Now something sounds a bit fishy here. So I started thinking, maybe they both ARE TO TIRED, or maybe they're JUST NOT SEXUAL PEOLE. Then the sex therapist began to speak. She stated that sex is good for you, it is one of the three things people need to survive, of course it helps to procreate, but you need that, water, and food.

A male sex therapist began rattling off the healthy things sex can do for you. He says, the more sex a guy has the less of a chance he'll likely develop prostate cancer. Yes, he said all that built up fluid in the sacks, does a body good, if it's released on the regular. Second, sex is a good source of exercise, knowing that a good amount of it can help you burn some calories. If you can't make it to the gym, just have sex a couple of times a week and you'll be good..LOL. Third, having sex releases endorphins, yea the happy hormones that we all have. If you're having a bad day, release that stress by increasing your recreational activities to include bedroom action!!! Fourth, sex helps couples reconnect, both of the therapist stated that a little love making is good for the soul. It is a connection that only you and your partner can share, so it is healthy for a well balanced relationship, expressing love and passion, with intimate contact.

These are just a few things to think about. Society, Religion, etc. have turned sex into a bad thing because children and immature people play with it. It can also be very dangerous, with unwarranted children being born, and diseases that may arise. But if taken seriously, and engaged in cautiously, it can be an added benefit to your life, and can ultimately save your life! Think joyous thoughts people and go have sex...bye now.... :-)

Do you also want to go away?!?!?

Do you also want to go away? —John 6:67

What a penetrating question! Our Lord’s words often hit home for us when He speaks in the simplest way. In spite of the fact that we know who Jesus is, He asks, "Do you also want to go away?" We must continually maintain an adventurous attitude toward Him, despite any potential personal risk.

"From that time many of His disciples went back and walked with Him no more" (John 6:66 ). They turned back from walking with Jesus; not into sin, but away from Him. Many people today are pouring their lives out and working for Jesus Christ, but are not really walking with Him. One thing God constantly requires of us is a oneness with Jesus Christ. After being set apart through sanctification, we should discipline our lives spiritually to maintain this intimate oneness. When God gives you a clear determination of His will for you, all your striving to maintain that relationship by some particular method is completely unnecessary. All that is required is to live a natural life of absolute dependence on Jesus Christ. Never try to live your life with God in any other way than His way. And His way means absolute devotion to Him. Showing no concern for the uncertainties that lie ahead is the secret of walking with Jesus.

Peter saw in Jesus only someone who could minister salvation to him and to the world. But our Lord wants us to be fellow laborers with Him.

In John 6:70 Jesus lovingly reminded Peter that he was chosen to go with Him. And each of us must answer this question for ourselves and no one else: "Do you also want to go away?"

MADEA HATERS ALL AROUND....

A Washington Post Article made me write this blog....i did not post the entire article, if you want to read it go to the link...I only wrote some excerpts from it... http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2009/02/24/AR2009022403303.html?referrer=emailarticle

What's So Funny About Madea? Nothing.
By Courtland MilloyWednesday, February 25, 2009; B01

I went to see the Tyler Perry movie "Madea Goes to Jail," in which Perry plays a wise-cracking black grandmother, Madea, short for "Mother Dear" and ebonically pronounced "muh deah."
With an extensive criminal past that includes "supersize stripper," attempted murderer and check fraud artist, Madea is a near-cult figure among many African Americans, especially women. Thanks in large part to them, Perry's comedic creation debuted as the No. 1 movie in America over the weekend, raking in $41 million and 34 percent of the weekend moviegoing audience, according to box-office tracker Exhibitor Relations.

..........with the movie featuring guest appearances by Whoopi Goldberg, Dr. Phil, Judge Mathis and Al Sharpton, perhaps I'd even get in a laugh or two.
Boy, was I wrong -- on both counts.

.....There is nothing funny about this black man in pantyhose. And where is all of this cross-dressing-black-man stuff coming from, anyway? First, comedians Eddie Murphy and Martin Lawrence star in high-grossing movies as the fattest, ugliest black women that Hollywood makeup artists can conjure up, and now here's Perry with his gussied-up version of the same butt of the joke.

By the way, I don't want to hear diddly about Robin Williams as Mrs. Doubtfire or Milton Berle in high heels. Having a black man play super mammy is not the same thing. Perhaps it would be were it not for America's perverse, systemic and centuries-long efforts to humiliate African men and women and turn them into slaves.
......The only good a Madea movie could possibly do would be to remind us that the scars of oppression are deep and enduring, often operating below the level of consciousness, then breaking out in the most bizarre manifestation of self-hate and self-sabotage, including pathetic images on the big screen.
Of course, Perry's fans don't see it that way. .....

I'm not taking away anything from the 39-year-old Perry's resourcefulness and ingenuity. He pulled himself up by the bootstraps from a low-income household in New Orleans, started writing and putting on stage plays about Madea (supposedly a composite of women in his life) and went on to become one of the most successful filmmakers in America.
He has a beautiful home and his own studios in Atlanta. He hires lots of young black actors and production personnel and makes considerable contributions to worthy causes.
He is awesome.
It's just that his movies are awful.
Here's a typical scene:
Madea's brother, Uncle Joe, also played by Perry, is a crusty old coot who breathes with the aid of an oxygen tank while smoking marijuana throughout the movie (he even wears a bong around his neck). Madea, ever the boss woman, scolds him mercilessly about the dangers of mixing fire and oxygen. And -- here's where the audience howls -- as Madea waddles past, her behind wide as a doorway, Uncle Joe cracks: "King Kong ain't got nothing on her."
How'd you like to see that on a movie marquee: Madea the black woman as King Kong? That's about as funny, say, as a dead monkey cartoon from the New York Post?

....... Sure, all of Perry's fans claim to know someone like Madea. But in truth, we know nothing -- only that she is aging and irrationally angry, existing to clean up everybody's else's mess, a linebacker of a house servant whose unmet emotional needs remain a mystery even to the great Dr. Phil himself. We may laugh at her, but the joke is on us.

HERE IS MY RESPONSE BELOW!!!

I think this article is one sided. I mean, sometimes we have to laugh at ourselves, movies imitate life and life imitates movies at times. Regardless of how we portray ourselves, as educators, thugs, inmates, doctors, lawyers, no matter what we do it's not good enough to change the perception that anybody, white people, or even uppity Negroes have for us. The man is making his money, and there is nothing wrong with that. If white people can make movies as stupid as Pineapple Express (white kids smoking weed all day long), That Zack and somebody make a porno movie (white kids making pornos for money), Step-Brothers (where 30yr old white men, sleep in bunk beds and have fart fighting contests). White people don't complain about that tainting their image or make a big deal out of it. Because they are just movies! There is not one movie out there that doesn't not have a critic/hater finding something negative to say or write about it. Movies are a source of entertainment to make us laugh, cry, etc. If they can do that, we can make a movie that contains many messages not just about an over sized black woman who is blunt with her words. We as a race need to be more positive, for years and years we have been trying to prove ourselves, movies aren't going to do any more damage than what the past has already done for us. No matter if we do positive things or negative things, it won't change people's perceptions of our race, so just laugh about it, keep working hard and do what you do. That won't stop our hard work, it hasn't thus far.

Anyway, the Editor neglected to mention the lady in the movie who helped the prostitutes get off the streets, using religion to help change them, he neglected to mention that the movie contained young blacks who were district attorneys, helping some of our black people get lesser sentences in jail. He failed to neglect that family is portrayed to stick together, and how love can conquer all. So he should makes note of both sides to the story, and not just one. I don't even care for his pity and ending to say, oh but Tyler Perry fought through poverty and yada yada....if so, then find something positive to say about his movies. At least for once we can spend our money on our movies to help our black actors and actresses and not have to go to the movies and see all of the movies with predominately white characters who don't relate to us in ANY WAY. That is how I feel about it. Thanks!

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I'm sure that you know, just as well as I, some folks that probably shouldn't have kids. I'm also certain that you know some people that already have kids but should be denied all parenting potential whatsoever. For me, it is an ongoing concern that the wrong people continue to bring kids in this world. It hurts me to my heart when I see a single teen mom pushing a stroller with a baby hanging off of her arm while one rides in the carriage. It hurts me to my heart to hear stories of women that continue to pop out children just so they can collect checks at the expense of tax payers while their children run the streets freely and unsupervised. And, it most certainly hurts me to my heart to hear of young fathers abandoning their seeds for whatever reason they have concocted in their brain as sufficient enough to roll out. Although, I'm sure that this is completely unethical on so many levels, I am proposing a State legislation that requires parents to be to take and pass an exam before being granted permit to engage in the act of conception. Also, those that are already parents have to retake the exam before popping out any more children.

In my mind, there is nothing unethical about this. Its called "Population Control" and makes more sense than continuing to enable those people that CHOOSE to rape the system of all its benefits at tax payers' expense.

So, I've devised these basic questions that I think should be a part of the exam:

1. Which of the following objects can be used to prevent pregnancy?

a. Box of Crackers
b. Box of Cookies
c. Box of Condoms

2. Have you ever used the above item? Circle YES or NO

3. If the annual cost of raising a child is $200,000 and the above item costs $3, how much are you saving by purchasing one box of the above item?

a. $199,997

b. $45

c. None of the Above

4. Do you have children already? Circle YES or NO

5. Are you currently receiving government assistance? Circle YES or NO

6. Are you currently employed? Circle YES or NO

7. If you answered NO to the previous question, are you currently seeking employment? Circle YES or NO

8. How long have you been employed/unemployed?

a. Less than 6 months

b. 6 months to a year

c. 1 year +

9. The reason for your unemployment is:

a. You have not sought a job.

b. You were terminated from your previous job.

c. You resigned from your previous job.

d. You lack professional skills/educational background.

Elaborate: _______________________________________________________________________________

10. Do you own a home? Circle YES or NO

11. Do you currently live in a residence for which you are renting or leasing under your own identity? Circle YES or NO.

13. Do you have a checking/savings bank account? Circle YES or NO.

By signing below, you agree that you will utilize your full potential to create a standard living environment that facilitates and nourishes that of rearing a child for the sake of that child's well being. You also agree that both parents, regardless of relationship status between each other, do agree to contribute to the child's mental and physical health by providing the quality assistance, time, and direction to the child's upbringing. You also agree that you will not abandon this child and that you are conceiving this child because you honestly desire to produce an extension of you. You agree that you will do your best to raise an upstanding citizen with moral values and character.

Mother X______________________________

Father X_______________________________

Witness X______________________________