Thursday, February 26, 2009

MADEA HATERS ALL AROUND....


A Washington Post Article made me write this blog....i did not post the entire article, if you want to read it go to the link...I only wrote some excerpts from it... http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2009/02/24/AR2009022403303.html?referrer=emailarticle
What's So Funny About Madea? Nothing.
By Courtland MilloyWednesday, February 25, 2009; B01

I went to see the Tyler Perry movie "Madea Goes to Jail," in which Perry plays a wise-cracking black grandmother, Madea, short for "Mother Dear" and ebonically pronounced "muh deah."
With an extensive criminal past that includes "supersize stripper," attempted murderer and check fraud artist, Madea is a near-cult figure among many African Americans, especially women. Thanks in large part to them, Perry's comedic creation debuted as the No. 1 movie in America over the weekend, raking in $41 million and 34 percent of the weekend moviegoing audience, according to box-office tracker Exhibitor Relations.

..........with the movie featuring guest appearances by Whoopi Goldberg, Dr. Phil, Judge Mathis and Al Sharpton, perhaps I'd even get in a laugh or two.
Boy, was I wrong -- on both counts.

.....There is nothing funny about this black man in pantyhose. And where is all of this cross-dressing-black-man stuff coming from, anyway? First, comedians Eddie Murphy and Martin Lawrence star in high-grossing movies as the fattest, ugliest black women that Hollywood makeup artists can conjure up, and now here's Perry with his gussied-up version of the same butt of the joke.

By the way, I don't want to hear diddly about Robin Williams as Mrs. Doubtfire or Milton Berle in high heels. Having a black man play super mammy is not the same thing. Perhaps it would be were it not for America's perverse, systemic and centuries-long efforts to humiliate African men and women and turn them into slaves.
......The only good a Madea movie could possibly do would be to remind us that the scars of oppression are deep and enduring, often operating below the level of consciousness, then breaking out in the most bizarre manifestation of self-hate and self-sabotage, including pathetic images on the big screen.
Of course, Perry's fans don't see it that way. .....

I'm not taking away anything from the 39-year-old Perry's resourcefulness and ingenuity. He pulled himself up by the bootstraps from a low-income household in New Orleans, started writing and putting on stage plays about Madea (supposedly a composite of women in his life) and went on to become one of the most successful filmmakers in America.
He has a beautiful home and his own studios in Atlanta. He hires lots of young black actors and production personnel and makes considerable contributions to worthy causes.
He is awesome.
It's just that his movies are awful.
Here's a typical scene:
Madea's brother, Uncle Joe, also played by Perry, is a crusty old coot who breathes with the aid of an oxygen tank while smoking marijuana throughout the movie (he even wears a bong around his neck). Madea, ever the boss woman, scolds him mercilessly about the dangers of mixing fire and oxygen. And -- here's where the audience howls -- as Madea waddles past, her behind wide as a doorway, Uncle Joe cracks: "King Kong ain't got nothing on her."
How'd you like to see that on a movie marquee: Madea the black woman as King Kong? That's about as funny, say, as a dead monkey cartoon from the New York Post?
....... Sure, all of Perry's fans claim to know someone like Madea. But in truth, we know nothing -- only that she is aging and irrationally angry, existing to clean up everybody's else's mess, a linebacker of a house servant whose unmet emotional needs remain a mystery even to the great Dr. Phil himself. We may laugh at her, but the joke is on us.

HERE IS MY RESPONSE BELOW!!!

I think this article is one sided. I mean, sometimes we have to laugh at ourselves, movies imitate life and life imitates movies at times. Regardless of how we portray ourselves, as educators, thugs, inmates, doctors, lawyers, no matter what we do it's not good enough to change the perception that anybody, white people, or even uppity Negroes have for us. The man is making his money, and there is nothing wrong with that. If white people can make movies as stupid as Pineapple Express (white kids smoking weed all day long), That Zack and somebody make a porno movie (white kids making pornos for money), Step-Brothers (where 30yr old white men, sleep in bunk beds and have fart fighting contests). White people don't complain about that tainting their image or make a big deal out of it. Because they are just movies! There is not one movie out there that doesn't not have a critic/hater finding something negative to say or write about it. Movies are a source of entertainment to make us laugh, cry, etc. If they can do that, we can make a movie that contains many messages not just about an over sized black woman who is blunt with her words. We as a race need to be more positive, for years and years we have been trying to prove ourselves, movies aren't going to do any more damage than what the past has already done for us. No matter if we do positive things or negative things, it won't change people's perceptions of our race, so just laugh about it, keep working hard and do what you do. That won't stop our hard work, it hasn't thus far.
Anyway, the Editor neglected to mention the lady in the movie who helped the prostitutes get off the streets, using religion to help change them, he neglected to mention that the movie contained young blacks who were district attorneys, helping some of our black people get lesser sentences in jail. He failed to neglect that family is portrayed to stick together, and how love can conquer all. So he should makes note of both sides to the story, and not just one. I don't even care for his pity and ending to say, oh but Tyler Perry fought through poverty and yada yada....if so, then find something positive to say about his movies. At least for once we can spend our money on our movies to help our black actors and actresses and not have to go to the movies and see all of the movies with predominately white characters who don't relate to us in ANY WAY. That is how I feel about it. Thanks!

Wednesday, February 18, 2009






My boyfriend made a good point with this blog http://www.fishfryl.blogspot.com/ check him out!! Read below:

I'm sure that you know, just as well as I, some folks that probably shouldn't have kids. I'm also certain that you know some people that already have kids but should be denied all parenting potential whatsoever. For me, it is an ongoing concern that the wrong people continue to bring kids in this world. It hurts me to my heart when I see a single teen mom pushing a stroller with a baby hanging off of her arm while one rides in the carriage. It hurts me to my heart to hear stories of women that continue to pop out children just so they can collect checks at the expense of tax payers while their children run the streets freely and unsupervised. And, it most certainly hurts me to my heart to hear of young fathers abandoning their seeds for whatever reason they have concocted in their brain as sufficient enough to roll out. Although, I'm sure that this is completely unethical on so many levels, I am proposing a State legislation that requires parents to be to take and pass an exam before being granted permit to engage in the act of conception. Also, those that are already parents have to retake the exam before popping out any more children.

In my mind, there is nothing unethical about this. Its called "Population Control" and makes more sense than continuing to enable those people that CHOOSE to rape the system of all its benefits at tax payers' expense.

So, I've devised these basic questions that I think should be a part of the exam:


1. Which of the following objects can be used to prevent pregnancy?

a. Box of Crackers
b. Box of Cookies
c. Box of Condoms

2. Have you ever used the above item? Circle YES or NO


3. If the annual cost of raising a child is $200,000 and the above item costs $3, how much are you saving by purchasing one box of the above item?

a. $199,997
b. $45
c. None of the Above


4. Do you have children already? Circle YES or NO


5. Are you currently receiving government assistance? Circle YES or NO


6. Are you currently employed? Circle YES or NO

7. If you answered NO to the previous question, are you currently seeking employment? Circle YES or NO

8. How long have you been employed/unemployed?
a. Less than 6 months
b. 6 months to a year
c. 1 year +


9. The reason for your unemployment is:

a. You have not sought a job.
b. You were terminated from your previous job.
c. You resigned from your previous job.
d. You lack professional skills/educational background.


Elaborate: _______________________________________________________________________________

10. Do you own a home? Circle YES or NO

11. Do you currently live in a residence for which you are renting or leasing under your own identity? Circle YES or NO.

13. Do you have a checking/savings bank account? Circle YES or NO.

By signing below, you agree that you will utilize your full potential to create a standard living environment that facilitates and nourishes that of rearing a child for the sake of that child's well being. You also agree that both parents, regardless of relationship status between each other, do agree to contribute to the child's mental and physical health by providing the quality assistance, time, and direction to the child's upbringing. You also agree that you will not abandon this child and that you are conceiving this child because you honestly desire to produce an extension of you. You agree that you will do your best to raise an upstanding citizen with moral values and character.

Mother X______________________________

Father X_______________________________

Witness X______________________________


365....Love is Life and Life is Living * HAPPY ANNIVERSARY BABE*


"....tomorrow will come and girl i can't wait it's our anniversary....... anniversary...the first thing I'll do is run straight to you it our anniversary..... anniversary"




This blog is dedicated to my one and only. The man who has been there for me for the past year of my life. Who would have ever thought that love could find me, or I could find love. It's something that people on a regular basis go out and look for. However, I believe that it should be something that finds you, and happens. Life can throw many curve balls at you, it's just a matter of being prepared. Honor and cherish what you have at home, because even though the grass may look greener on the other side, once you get there it could be the total opposite. Stay true and make sure you have a balanced relationship, filled with love, compassion, honestly, communication, and most importantly love. Make sure you have self love first, that way you'll have an abundance to spread it to your significant other.


It has been officially 365 day of love for me. So I wanted to write a little something to show my man how much I love him.



This is our day baby, I can't believe it,


Love has found us, it's not deceiving,


Who would have ever thought, life could take this turn,


A turn for the better, you taught me and I've learned,


What love can be if we just try to receive,


Come at it full force, no really believe me,


Don't give up love is worth the fight,


Whether it's mental or physical, dealing with the plight,


Make sure that our souls speak freely, honestly and true,


There's no one I'd rather be with than you,


It takes hard work that's for sure,


If you work with me babe, I can give you much more,


Times will come when people may intervene,


Try to steal the joy, maybe have tricks up the sleeve,


Situations may arise, that test our faith,


Communication can fix it, if its what we're willing to take,


There is no mountain higher I can scream loudly from,


When I look into your eyes it's like the rays from the sun,


We gotta make it work, we've come this far,


It's our anniversary babe, and you are my star..


I love you....

Thursday, February 5, 2009

20 Questions of the day

When you're bored, this is what you do....and if you're just as bored as I am, then you'll respond and give me some answers to my questions..LOL

1. Why does the economy seem to get worse daily instead of better?

2. How does Chipotle get their sour cream to be so thin, when you buy it in the store, it's mad thick and fluffy?!

3. If you feel in love before and had your heart torn, worn, and broken, once your heart is repaired, does it have scars and stretch marks on it?!

4. How come the most people who love to talk about sex, are the least sexiest!?

5. Why do people plan to cheat?!

6. How come people don't wash their hands when they leave the bathroom?! was it not taught at home?!

7. Why did I see like 6 Caucasians running through every neighborhood I drove in last night? Were they running from the cops, or getting their exercise?

8. Why does it seem like Hilary is more excited to be with Obama, than she is to be with Bill?!

9. Have anyone seen a picture of the blackasian Lil lil Wang, I mean Wayne?!

10. Do you think some of the episodes of "How to Catch a Predator" are as funny as I do?
excerpt from a funny episode I saw: "WHAT ARE YOU DOING?!....You got cool whip, ......and your chasing the cat around...." LMAO that makes me crack up every time.

11. Why do people go to the club to have find others to bring home, and one night stands?!yet we claim the AIDS rate is soooo high!

12. Why does work never get done AT work?!

13. Why can't life always be this easy?!

14. Why do people change their Facebook picture like 5 times a day?!

15. Why do dudes lie to "protect female's feelings"?!

16. Why are bus drivers always so mean?! yet train conductors seem high off of closing the doors on rushing passengers...

17. How come having babies is more important than marriage these days?!

18. Why do the least religious people utter the words "Oh My God!" in times of their need?!!!!

19. Why do people have debates over trying to make weed legal?! you're gonna do it no matter if it's legal or illegal, so just shut up about it already, get high, and stop complaining....

20. Why am I writing these questions when I should be working?!

OK now I'm getting back to work...these are my thoughts for today...thanks for reading

ATTEMPTING TO RESIST TEMPTATION

ATTEMPTING TO RESIST TEMPTATION
WRITTEN BY YOURS TRULY : DIVINE PERCEPTION


When you look into the mirror what do you see?
A little brown girl that looks like me;

Dark hair, sun-kissed skin, a round nose, and full lips,
Curves all over especially the hips;

These are things that make me beautiful, different from the rest,
When “they” ask me “what’s pretty?” I always know what’s best;

So how do others fit into my equation of life?
They don’t….. In fact; they only cause drama and strife;

Why do I feel like I need to depend on them for satisfaction?
When every time they appear it’s just a distraction…….

A distraction from what I know is best for me,
All I need is GOD, true friends and my family;

These guys tell me things they know I want to hear,
But when I really need them, they never seem to appear;

They only seem to want me for one aspect of myself,
But after it’s complete I feel lost……..like the last item on a shelf…..

Why do I feel I need this attention?
I have to focus on my goals, GOD and not to mention…

The purpose I am here to live and breathe,
Because I want to be remembered when I leave…..

So why am I focused on negativity,
And people who are….. Of no importance to me?

When I’m stressed I tend to stray in the wrong direction
Looking for love and affection;

When the truth is, I never receive exactly what I’m looking for,
And when they turn around and walk out the door…..

I still feel the same way I did before they came,
The emotions are a mixture of pleasure and pain;

I need something to make me believe,
Know I am better than any boy or man perceives;

So if I just hold on I know the clouds will soon be gone,
Because there’s a blessing in this storm;

This is all a test….. A part of GOD’s perfect plan;
The truth is he’s the most important person or Man!!

I need to realize this before things get out of hand,
And I’m no longer able to withstand….

All of the emotions that I tend to portray,
Because ONLY he’s going to be there, standing before ME on Judgment Day!!


A poem for a Friend Written December 16, 2005
(these are my thoughts and my words!!)

Wednesday, February 4, 2009

Spiritual Dejection


This touched me today: Read and share with friends....Spiritual Dejection

We were hoping that it was He who was going to redeem Israel. Indeed, besides all this, today is the third day since these things happened —Luke 24:21

Every fact that the disciples stated was right, but the conclusions they drew from those facts were wrong. Anything that has even a hint of dejection spiritually is always wrong. If I am depressed or burdened, I am to blame, not God or anyone else. Dejection stems from one of two sources— I have either satisfied a lust or I have not had it satisfied. In either case, dejection is the result. Lust means "I must have it at once." Spiritual lust causes me to demand an answer from God, instead of seeking God Himself who gives the answer. What have I been hoping or trusting God would do? Is today "the third day" and He has still not done what I expected? Am I therefore justified in being dejected and in blaming God? Whenever we insist that God should give us an answer to prayer we are off track. The purpose of prayer is that we get ahold of God, not of the answer. It is impossible to be well physically and to be dejected, because dejection is a sign of sickness. This is also true spiritually. Dejection spiritually is wrong, and we are always to blame for it.

We look for visions from heaven and for earth-shaking events to see God's power. Even the fact that we are dejected is proof that we do this. Yet we never realize that all the time God is at work in our everyday events and in the people around us. If we will only obey, and do the task that He has placed closest to us, we will see Him. One of the most amazing revelations of God comes to us when we learn that it is in the everyday things of life that we realize the magnificent deity of Jesus Christ.