So as I was getting my teeth cleaned yesterday, I was watching the Mike & Juliet Show, some NBC or Fox morning show I think. Anyway, they had a married couple on there stating that they never have sex. Yea I know what you're thinking...burrrr how is this possible?! Married with no sex......Then you think of the stereotypes about married couples not gettin' in on the regular and it makes you question the whole married thing right? Well, they seemed like a nice married family with two kids (ages 8 and 12), so they are familiar with the act. However, the husband is a truck driver, ALWAYS on the road, and the mother is a nurse with a rather stable schedule. She goes to work, kids, homework, bed. Often missing her husband for days, when he does come home, she doesn't feel the need to have some "alone" time to reconnect the passion they had once before, and apperantly neither does he. They blame it on the kids and how tired they are. Kids can be real "sex police", but with some music or a tv in the background, and/or a baby sitter, you can MAKE a WAY, no excuses!
So a sex therapist asked the couple how they felt about the lack of sexual encounters they had, telling the wife that her lack of ambition for sexual relations, could lead her husband to stray away and "get it in" on the road. She stated that she wasn't worried about him cheating, she's comfortable with her relationship (all bull if you ask me!!!). The husband proclaims that he is waaaaaay too busy on the road to cheat (more bull if you ask me!!!). Now something sounds a bit fishy here. So I started thinking, maybe they both ARE TO TIRED, or maybe they're JUST NOT SEXUAL PEOLE. Then the sex therapist began to speak. She stated that sex is good for you, it is one of the three things people need to survive, of course it helps to procreate, but you need that, water, and food.
A male sex therapist began rattling off the healthy things sex can do for you. He says, the more sex a guy has the less of a chance he'll likely develop prostate cancer. Yes, he said all that built up fluid in the sacks, does a body good, if it's released on the regular. Second, sex is a good source of exercise, knowing that a good amount of it can help you burn some calories. If you can't make it to the gym, just have sex a couple of times a week and you'll be good..LOL. Third, having sex releases endorphins, yea the happy hormones that we all have. If you're having a bad day, release that stress by increasing your recreational activities to include bedroom action!!! Fourth, sex helps couples reconnect, both of the therapist stated that a little love making is good for the soul. It is a connection that only you and your partner can share, so it is healthy for a well balanced relationship, expressing love and passion, with intimate contact.
These are just a few things to think about. Society, Religion, etc. have turned sex into a bad thing because children and immature people play with it. It can also be very dangerous, with unwarranted children being born, and diseases that may arise. But if taken seriously, and engaged in cautiously, it can be an added benefit to your life, and can ultimately save your life! Think joyous thoughts people and go have sex...bye now.... :-)
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AMEN to this one!!! I feel like there are certain things in this world that shouldn't be restricted and that includes, but isn't limited to, marijuana and sex. First, let's take weed... it comes from a plant... so before man gets his greasy little hands on it and injects all of these chemicals, which take away from its natural potency, its essentially nothing more than the fruit of the earth.
Now, much like marijuana, man has taken SEX is a natural thing. It is the uninhibited expression of one's affection for another. Without it, how can one be assured that his mate is still naturally and essentially feeling them?
I believe that sex is good for everyone just like marijuana!!! Let's smoke and make love and be happier people!!!
I have to admit that after reading this post, I want to go have sex right now! lmao jk (actually I'm serious lol)
LMAO@ the weed comparison..hilarious!!!! but i feel you, i mean the way society turns things around messes stuff up. And little people with dirty minds can make you feel dirty when you think about doing stuff like that. But hey, to each is own, jesus loves all his children..
LMAO jethro you funny..ahaha that's my advice, it could save your life :-)
Lol TI-A, now you know i'ma cut you for that last statement. Anywho, the sex therapist has a point but clearly sex isn't the only thing that can produce that list of benefits. So for now, I'll go ahead and stick to spiritual guidelines.
As for being married and not having sex....they can have that! Not having time for sex and not cheating??? ...if that's what works for them...I just hope their lack of a sex life and oh so busy lives are not indirectly affecting their children!
I concur, we all have spiritual guidlines that we follow. We know eating healthy and all that crap gives those benefits too, so this is used to have sex listed as an added benefit! which most ppl don't know it can help, it can be pleasureful and healthful. Hence, the therapist was talking to a married couple. hint hint..but we all have to answer to the lord later, no sinner is greater than the other, thou shall not judge..lol is that a commandment? it should be.
Yep...but we're also supposed to hold one another accountable...guess you just have to be selective as to who, when, and where so that it isn't mistaken for judgement. :) Lol....just had to throw that in there
lol amen to that. where have u been? blogsville misses u.
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